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Interpretation of Cases of Disagreement among Mothers of Blood Type B

1. When you use the money you earn to give gifts that she likes, she says you're wasting money.

Do you think: What does mother like? Am I wrong?

What she actually meant: In fact, I was very moved and relieved that you have grown up and become sensible.

2. When you are silent, she ignores you, or makes a loud noise when doing housework, or goes to a neighbor's house.

Do you think: Mom is angry, she doesn't care about my feelings at all.

What she actually meant: I am upset about not understanding you. I want to care about you but I can't start, why don't you communicate with me?

3. Your test results are poor. She went to a parent-teacher meeting, but came back and said you were pretty good.

Do you think: Hey, the teacher didn't sue me. But my grades are obviously not good ( blood type and personality http:///xx/)

What she actually means: I am very anxious and don't want to hurt you, and I want to solve the problem, so I must encourage you and hope you have more courage and perseverance to face the reality.