Social contacts of the rat people

　　If you keep talking in front of the rat people, don't think that your eloquence will arouse their favor, because they are so insightful that they will see your weaknesses and shortcomings clearly. Even if you are not careful, it will arouse the resentment of the rat people. The clever and clever mouse scouts always appear so smart and capable. If you want to get along well with these clever " rats ", you must first learn to listen.

　　The reason why God gave people two ears and one mouth is to teach people to talk less and listen more. In interpersonal communication, learning to listen is not only a respect for others, but also shows your self-cultivation and self-cultivation. The masters who are best at communicating with others are those who are good at listening. In life, an attractive person must be a listener, not a talkative and chattering person. This is even more important when you interact with the rat people. Maybe during the conversation, you and the rat people did not say a few words, but you will respond after listening to the "rats". Your appropriate words will arouse their favor. They think you respect them. They will gradually like to talk to you as they get valued.

　　Rat people’s ability to observe and adapt to changes is very prominent. They can always inadvertently observe your words and actions clearly. They will understand your psychology from your conversation and demeanor. Then make judgments about you as a person. Although the rat people are quick to react, they are flexible in mind, and speak faster, but they don't have a good impression of those who are witty and non-stop talking. Because they are naturally insightful, they can always detect hidden things in the actions of others, such as shortcomings that others are trying to hide, or the dark side of their character. As the saying goes, disaster comes out of the mouth, and if you speak too much, you will lose. When a person shows his "eloquence" too much in front of the rat, whether it is to please the rat or ordinary communication, the prospect of the person and the rat is likely to be "gloomy".

　　Rats like people who know how to "listen" to them, so when you get along with rat people, you have to learn to listen first. To truly listen, you must listen with your heart, your eyes, and your ears. And not only must learn to listen with ears, but also learn to listen with heart. Here are the listening skills when dealing with mice:

　　1. Have a good mental state. A good mental state is an important prerequisite for the quality of listening. If you "listen" sluggishly, you will not achieve a good listening effect, and will only compromise the quality of communication.

　　2. Use actions and expressions to respond in time. When talking, you should be good at using your posture, facial expressions, parenthesis and interjections. For example, smiling, nodding, etc., will make the conversation more harmonious.

　　3. The necessary silence. Silence is like a rest on a musical score. When used properly, it has endless meaning and can truly achieve the effect of "silence is better than sound". But silence must be used decently, and it must be abused by pretending to be advanced and profound regardless of the occasion.

　　4. Ask timely and appropriate questions. Asking questions at the right time and at the right time is a way of listening. Ask the mice the questions they like to answer and encourage them to talk about themselves and their achievements. To make others interested in you, be interested in others first.

　　5. Don't interrupt other people's speech casually, be patient. When the rats speak a lot, or the language expression is fragmented or even chaotic due to emotional agitation and other reasons, you should listen to their narration patiently. Even if you don’t want to listen to some content, listen to it patiently.

　　In short, to please mice, you have to be able to listen. Listening needs to be able to reach the ears, the eyes and the heart. When you lead the rat people to the direction or level you need through clever responses, you can easily master the initiative of the conversation. If you are good at listening, you will be welcomed by the rat people everywhere.

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