Seen from the face, no one can escape the pain of three years and the itch of seven years

Three years of pain, seven years of itch. This sentence seems to have become a summary of the experience of many friends who have been injured in love. In the third year of love, when all the freshness and mystery have disappeared, it has reached a state of passion and stagnation. Many couples will have new ideas and feelings at this time, and these ideas usually lead to a breakup of the two due to lack of communication or disagreement.

The seven-year itch? Love has reached its seventh year. All passions are gone, and feelings are sublimated to family affection. When we took each other's hand and touched each other's face, everything was so familiar. Is life without freshness like chicken ribs, tasteless, but a pity to abandon it? After all, the feelings of so many years should not be given up lightly. However, there are too many temptations in this world, and without a firm will, it is easy to be swallowed by this colorful world. So as to once again confirm the theory of the seven-year itch...

Lips

The lip shape is relatively thin, and there are obvious men who have little nostalgia for emotional matters, are very playful, and are mostly utilitarian for interpersonal relationships. It is especially the shape of the drooping lip at the corner of the mouth, and it is a look that does not miss the old feelings. It pays great attention to the feelings of oneself, and there are more emotional incidents such as unfeeling.

nose

Generally, people with hooks at the front of their noses are called grooved noses. Such men are not honest at first sight, they are sinister and cunning, and they have a cold appearance, but they are not cold at all in their hearts. They are very active and can use their own outside In the image, more women’s favor

eyebrow

Men with curved eyebrows like the moon are mostly emotional, very delicate in their hearts, and very understanding. It is not easy to understand women 's hearts. They are easy to come into contact with the opposite sex, and they are very popular with ladies. . This kind of person has the greatest probability of cheating after getting married. If the eyebrows are crooked and the eyebrows are scattered, this kind of man is usually very attractive and can always make the opposite sex fascinated, his own resistance and self-control ability are poor, and the opposite sex discharges a little, and he is attracted to him.

eye

Most responsible men have more determined eyes, but some men have watery eyes and look like smiling but not smiling. Such men are prone to peach blossoms in the middle of life, and they are very easy to be confused by women. If the eyes are watery or double eyelids, then you have to be careful. This kind of man is relatively emotional, and it is difficult to control himself in the face of the temptation of the opposite sex. It is the easiest to do things like Bao Xiaosan and raising a mistress.

Eye pattern

Men with many and disorderly crow's feet are most likely to act on the scene, using their virtual appearance to hide themselves, and go outside to get in touch with flowers and grass, but there is one thing, such men often do not eat lamb, but they attract a show. When the lover discovers such behavior, he will be honest for a period of time at first, and then he will die. The end of the eye is inclined upward, and the lines are downward and long. Men are always with you? Be wary, always ask and hope that the other person is perfect, everything must be done according to your own requirements, typical male chauvinism, so if you encounter it again Good women will only be unreasonably picky, and constantly look for new people.

In fact, the feeling of itching and pain should be almost the same. It is nothing more than feeling the fading of passion. The two people who were intimate are getting more and more distant and irrelevant, and they are beginning to be confused by the original love. Why is there a feeling of pain for three years? Is it because of the existence of perfectionism? At the beginning, the love was vigorous and lingering. One day, I found out that love is not the original love. Did he change? Or did he change himself?

"Or neither, just before they entered marriage, they were blindfolded by the illusion of love, just like the feelings on the Internet, they yearn for a purely emotional life, and ignore the existence of some shortcomings in life; and the two Individuals living together, facing each other day and night, familiar with each other, that kind of familiarity will cause people to have a habit of neglect. In fact, marriage life requires more than just love, but also mundane things such as firewood, rice, oil and salt. So, at first The dream collapsed in reality."

How did so many undivorced couples end their lives? Is it true that the only support for this marriage is the sense of responsibility of both parties? I think there should be mutual trust and promises.

The so-called "seven-year itch" refers to one year of freshness, two years of familiarity, three years of boring, four years of thinking, five years of planning, six years of stupidity, and seven years of action. Another way of saying that is that people have to go through a crisis test in the seventh year or so after marriage , and then there will be two results: either the marriage develops in a benign and healthy direction, or the two separate and fall apart, which may eventually lead to The marriage is disintegrated, and labor and Yan are separated.

Think about it, in the journey of life, everyone will have to interpret such propositions: know each other, love, be familiar, and then return to the ordinary. Love is more than just the cold numbers of "three years and seven years". The pain of three years and the itch of seven years are unavoidable, but after the pain, only the ones you are most familiar with are the ones that can make the most. Comfortable by yourself.

The real reason behind the seven-year itch

Normal men always have the idea of "derailment" three years, seven years, and ten years after marriage, either actively or passively. The so-called "three-year pain" and "seven-year itch" are still very reasonable. Yes, if you can’t have sex after ten years of marriage, basically a man will have no chance of cheating, because the good time for cheating has passed, and the idea of cheating can only be ruthlessly buried in a plain marriage. Why are married men easy to cheat?

Work pressure too much

Modern society has bred many "modern diseases", work pressure is high, life rhythm is tight. It is easy for men to bring their work emotions to their homes, but when they go to bed, they are still thinking about work, so they can't lift the energy, let alone sleep well.

And most modern women are no longer housewives, because they have their own careers, self-esteem and self-confidence are also forced to the extreme by work. They also often bite the bullet and work, and are exhausted when they return home. At this time, both men and women are most likely to have conflicts, and their emotions will be more irritable than usual. Sexual life sometimes becomes a decompression medicine, but many women fail to make good use of it.

Just because it's too lonely

Most divorced couples live in two places and do not have a normal sex life. Because of work, in order to earn money, in order to support the family, men have to face up to difficulties no matter how hard they are, and do not care about themselves, but women should not fantasize at this time. Men defend themselves like jade?

Because keeping one's body like jade is unrealistic for men who are often socializing on business trips, it is not conducive to work, and of course it is not conducive to unity. Men work hard in the first place, so eating, drinking, and having fun is justified. If you let a man behave like a jade, it's better to castrate him directly. It is not easy for men to make home, and women should also understand.

Sexual discordance

Mr. Mencius once said: Food and sex are also good. The so-called food sex also means that sex is as important as eating . There is an old Chinese saying: People are iron, and rice is steel. You don’t have to be hungry when you stew. If the spouse’s prolonged sex life is not harmonious, then the married life is not satisfactory and happy.

Sometimes men are self-righteous and always like to put the blame on women. Blame the wife for not knowing how to bring forth new ideas, and also blame the wife for not doing her job well. The fault lies with women. This is of course male chauvinism. Both men and women are responsible for discordant sex lives. Men can't just solve problems and enjoyment without discovering interest and fun.

Lack of understanding and care

Most men, because of their social roles, are sometimes more reluctant to speak out their pain and pressure, but often bury them in their hearts. At this time, men need more understanding and care. And women also have their own families, and there are a lot of things at home, and an oversight is inevitable. But there are too many trivial things in daily life, and I always care about one thing and lose another. Every day, the computer, TV, and telephone of the other party have completely turned into a monotonous and gorgeous life.

In fact, it is okay to enjoy a high-quality life, but it is best not to become a slave to a high-quality life. It is recommended that the young couple always shut down and shut down, live an unplugged life, go out and play, and then return to the age of love. .

Wife is so capable

The reason why modern society has progressed is that it has given women more opportunities, and women have become more and more capable. There have been batches of outstanding representatives. The emergence of strong women has disrupted the original Chinese-style female protagonist and the inner male protagonist. Foreign traditions have become the result of big women and small men. Capable women make men an accessory, so men have to find the feeling of being a man from other women.

So if you are a big woman who is a strong woman, if you really don’t want your man to cheat, then it’s best to leave the strong woman outside, or sit a small woman at home, go to the hall, and go to the kitchen. To truly retain a man’s heart, a man’s self-confidence needs to be cultivated, and self-esteem also needs to be respected.

Family financial disputes

Under normal circumstances, most of the money men earn is controlled by women. The woman thinks in her heart that the money she earns is to take care of the family. Of course, if you control the economic power of the family, you can control the lifeline of a man. If you don't have money, it depends on how you go out and fool around. And men have to fight for their own rights, and they will keep some private money at every turn, but it is best to hide them a little bit. It is not good to be caught.

This problem is very annoying. If there is too much money, something will happen, but if there is no money, something bigger will happen, which is depressing enough. It doesn't matter how women look at money, but you must pay attention to it. If you can't grasp it, the money will be retained, but the man's heart will go farther and farther.

Differences in Ideas

The difference between men and women is especially obvious. The economic outlook, world outlook and outlook on life of men and women are often separated gradually with the passage of time after marriage, and men’s thoughts and concepts will undergo earth-shaking changes. Women tend to stand still and squat, so many problems arise.

There can be a distance, but it must not be stretched too far, otherwise, as time goes by, the relationship between husband and wife and generation gap will be separated, so women who think in place must work hard to keep pace with the times.

Wife's "Secret Words" reveal the secret - men and women, who have been entangled for thousands of years, are still happy and addicted to each other. The game of love has always been endless and irresistible. However, for the understanding of sex, men and women are always "talking with the same duck." The subtle physical differences produce souls facing each other across the sea.

External influence

If you are close to Zhu Zhechi, close to Mo, you are black, and go out with your colleagues. If you don’t join the group, then you won’t be able to do your work. When you stay with friends, you can’t leave the reputation of "strict wife control", so sometimes Forced.

How many innocent ones can come out? However, not every man will not control himself, so women must learn to believe, rather than believe that he has no empathy, and never have doubts, because of doubt. If there are too many, it will inspire men to go out to study badly.

Work and social needs

Work is inseparable from dinner. Eating, drinking, feasting, feasting and feasting are indispensable for work and entertainment, and sometimes you have to do some fake things. Of course, you also have your own circle of friends. In order to work and gain the trust of the other party, you have to do some shame thing.

So men are very strange animals. Sometimes there is really no way to do it. Open your eyes and close your eyes, because too much care will hurt yourself.

Miss the youth of the past

Don’t think that men really love the young women around them and like silly girl movies like this or that? In fact, men just want to find the shadow of youth and beautiful memories. Men are sometimes simple, and they often need only a feeling. Follow the feeling. If you go, you will lose yourself if you are not careful.

But don't worry, one day, when a man finds that he is not good enough, he will learn to be a man with his tail caught.

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