How to see a person's heart through body language?

One of the body language: He has something to say

Close-up of body movements: his upper body is leaning forward, his shoulders hanging down, his eyes drifting over your head.

Many people will involuntarily make this kind of body language at the critical moment when they decide to confide the truth of the matter. This posture represents his mental state of being submissive and obedient, and secretly hopes to gain your understanding. However, you don't need to make a final conclusion right away-what he is about to say may not be the thing that worries you the most. Perhaps, he just needs your help.

Coping secret: You might as well use an understatement and start with a question like "You seem to have something to tell me", then just shut up, leave some time for him to consider the wording, and wait patiently for his response. Don't keep asking questions like shooting a machine gun, instead "robbing" him of the opportunity to speak.

If what he wants to say is not a bad thing to sorry you, of course he won't hide it in his heart for too long. If he wants to talk more and more frequently, and then swallows the words back to his lips, it means that the truth of the matter is likely to provoke you very unpleasantly. At this time, you'd better be mentally prepared, otherwise, if you get confused Once the battle is over, you can't calmly think about how to deal with it.

Body language 2: He is in a state of anxiety

Close-up of body movements: He placed his hands under his hips, sitting on his own hands.

When people express their feelings freely and unreservedly, their hands often dance around unconsciously. Putting your hands under your hips and sitting on your own hands means that the person is trying to control himself so as not to blurt out things that shouldn't be said.

Coping secrets: praise him for being a caring "baby" and so on. You can also use relaxed body language to soothe his anxiety, stretch your arms to the back of the chair, put on a comfortable look, or give him a surprise hug from behind him.

He is not necessarily hiding something shameful, but for fear that what he says will mess up the whole situation or atmosphere-in fact, many people have this habit since childhood. This also means that he is worried that his next words and deeds will cause displeasure to others. When he feels your peace and tranquility, he will also relax, and the insecurity will gradually disappear.

Body Language Three: He is annoyed

Close-up of body movements: He clenched his fists, his eyes wandered, and his jaw tightened.

Since anger and hatred are emotions that are not easy to be hidden, he will inevitably reduce the chance of direct contact with your eyes. Subconsciously, he is worried that once you look directly into his eyes, your inner anxiety will be seen through by you. Unconsciously clenching your fists is also a sign of impending anger. Finally, see if his jaw and cheek bones are tightly together. If he presses his lips and the muscles on both sides of his cheeks near his jaw keep twitching and contracting, then he is really raging deep in his heart.

Coping secret: Except for serious violent tendencies, most men would rather remain silent than have direct conflicts with women. If you want to know why he is angry, you might as well look directly into his eyes. If after you meet his gaze, he only glares at you and then immediately diverts his gaze, then your eight achievements are the fuse to make him angry.

At this time, you'd better tell him directly: "You can see that you are very upset, is there a problem?" This means that you are willing to work with him to solve the problem. If he is angry because of other things, let him understand that you can be the object of his confession, and then slowly calm him.

Body Language Four: He is under a lot of pressure

Close-up of body movements: He kept touching or combing his hair with his fingers.

Playing with your hair is a symbol of heart pressure. Fiddle with the buttons on the jacket and fold the napkin back and forth, also have the same meaning. He may also constantly change sitting positions, shake his feet, and tap his fingers back and forth on the table like playing the piano.

Coping secret: What you can help him is to distract him and prevent him from continuing to hack the horns. Otherwise, the pressure will be like a snowball. Don't keep asking him what happened. You can absently pull him back to reality, invite him to take a walk in the park, watch a movie, and rely on another activity to arouse his interest. Once he takes the troubles out of his mind, he will most likely tell you the reasons for the stress. Many times, he may not fully understand the cause of his troubles!

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